BBC Learnings · Section 14
What is the manosphere
I'm Phil. And I'm Georgie. We hear a lot about the difficulties young men face growing up in the modern world and how many of them are looking online for answer
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- I'm Phil. And I'm Georgie.
- We hear a lot about the difficulties young men face growing up in the modern world and how many of them are looking online for answers.
- This has created a situation which has been given the name the Manosphere.
- What exactly is the Manosphere?
- Here's Anita Rani, presenter of BBC Radio 4's Woman's Hour, with one definition.
- The Manosphere describes attitudes expressed online that men are superior.
- You won't find any website named www.manosphere.com www.manosphere.com www.manosphere.com but in social media posts, TikTok videos and other online content,
- ideas about how to be a man are finding a young male audience, sometimes with damaging results.
- In this episode, we'll hear from Will Adolfi, a young British man who followed the manosphere until, in his mid-twenties, he suffered a breakdown.
- And as usual, we'll learn some useful new words and phrases.
- But first, I have a question for you, Georgie.
- According to men's self-help group the Movember Foundation, a majority of British young men regularly engage with masculinity influencers online.
- But how many exactly?
- Is it A, two-thirds, B, three-quarters, or C, eight-tenths?
- I'm going to guess A, two-thirds.
- OK, well, we'll find out the answer later in the programme.
- The Manosphere includes the idea that the world is biased against men.
- According to the social media influencers who promote these views, being a man means being strong, rich and controlling others, especially women.
- As a young boy, Will Adolfi was unlike other boys at school and as he grew into a teenager, he started engaging with some of these ideas.
- Here he tells BBC Radio 4 programme Woman's Hour how it all started.
- I didn't quite fit in the box.
- You know, I was doing ballet.
- I wanted to be an actor.
- I wrote poetry.
- And I was an easy target.
- By the time I got to 14 years old, if you look at pictures of me, you can see bravado.
- You can see a mask.
- I see it.
- I unknowingly did my best to adhere to what we call the man box,
- which is a kind of rigid set of ideals and rules that I may feel pressure as a boy to follow in order to be a quote-unquote real man.
- The teenage years can be difficult for someone who's different.
- Will enjoyed poetry and ballet and he says this made him an easy target, someone who's vulnerable and easily taken advantage of.
- Will responded with bravado, a show of bravery to impress other people but which often hides someone's true feelings.
- He felt pressure to present himself as a quote-unquote real man.
- The phrase quote-unquote can be used to show you're repeating someone else's words.
- especially if you don't agree with them.
- But behind the bravado, Will struggled to get a girlfriend or hold down a job.
- Offline, his life seemed to reflect messages he saw in the videos he was watching online that his problems were caused by women.
- Here's Will again, sharing more with BBC Radio 4's Woman's Hour.
- When I went online to search for answers, I had an influencer telling me the world hates men.
- which really felt true and it kind of distorted my worldview where it got painted over, this whole brush, where I started to feel that was really true,
- that everyone hates men, so it was an us versus them.
- Will's view of the world became distorted, twisted out of shape and unrealistic.
- He started seeing everyone as an enemy.
- Will says he painted everyone with the same brush.
- an idiom meaning to unfairly think everyone has the same bad qualities as a certain person.
- Will saw the world as us versus them, a phrase which is used to show hostility between two opposing groups,
- in this case the men in the manosphere and everyone else, especially women, progressives and the mainstream media, who he believed wanted to limit their power.
- Luckily for Will, his experiences in the online world of the manosphere ended, but not before his mental health had declined to the point of a breakdown.
- Now he visits schools around the UK telling his story to young people, reminding them always to question what they see and hear online.
- OK, Phil, I think it's time to reveal the answer to your question.
- Yes, I asked you how many British young men regularly engage with masculinity influencers online.
- And I said a, two thirds.
- Which was the correct answer. Well done.
- Thank you.
- OK, let's recap the vocabulary we've learned, starting with an easy target, a vulnerable person who is easily taken advantage of.
- Bravado is a show of bravery or confidence to impress people.
- The phrase quote unquote can be used to show you are repeating someone else's words, especially if you do not agree.
- Something which is distorted has become misshapen so that it looks strange or unnatural.
- The phrase us versus them is used to show hostility between two opposing groups.
- And finally, if you paint everyone with the same brush, you unfairly think everyone has the same bad qualities of one person.