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Too old to have a baby
I'm Neil. And I'm Beth. Women today are having fewer babies.
Level: B1 · 60 sentences
Transcript
- I'm Neil. And I'm Beth.
- Women today are having fewer babies.
- More women are delaying having children until their 40s the period of 10 years in life between 40 and 49.
- And some women are giving birth in their 50s, their 60s, even their 70s.
- There are many reasons behind the trend for older mums, including better access to education and careers. But there are also health risks to having children later in life.
- So in this programme, we'll be asking when are you too old to have a baby? And as usual, we'll be learning some useful new vocabulary as well.
- But first, I have a question for you, Neil.
- In 2019, Mangayama Yaramati gave birth to twins in the state of Andhra Pradesh, South India.
- But these were no ordinary twins because Mangayama was the oldest recorded woman ever to give birth.
- So how old was the oldest ever mum when she gave birth?
- Was she A, 53 years old?
- B, 63 years old? or c.
- 73 years old?
- I'm going to guess 63.
- OK, Neil, we'll find out the correct answer at the end of the programme.
- Professor of Reproductive Science at University College London, Joyce Harper, has been studying the trend of women choosing to have babies later in life.
- Here, she shares her discoveries with BBC World Service programme, Global Story.
- 20, 30 years ago, women were having children at a much younger age.
- Now it's become quite normal for women in their 30s.
- As we see with the world data, there's many countries where women have their first birth over the age of 30. But this is quite a new phenomena.
- That's why this term geriatric mother unfortunately still lingers.
- Professor Harper uses the word phenomena to describe the trend for older mothers.
- Phenomena are unusual or significant facts and events that exist and are talked about.
- People often get this wrong, but the plural form is phenomena and the singular is phenomenon.
- The concept of older mothers is still quite a new phenomenon and attitudes towards them are changing.
- Mothers over the age of 35 used to be called geriatric, a word many found offensive.
- Fortunately, this term is no longer used. But social disapproval of older mothers still lingers.
- If something lingers, it continues to exist longer than usual or expected.
- Yes, in some cultures older mothers are still disapproved of. But wait a minute, Neil, it takes two to make a baby.
- What's the man's role in all of this?
- Well, unlike women, whose ability to naturally get pregnant declines sharply in their 40s, men's fertility lasts longer.
- Rolling Stones singer Mick Jagger famously had his eighth child with his 29-year-old partner at the age of 73.
- So, are older fathers more socially acceptable than older mothers?
- Yes, thinks Professor Harper as she explained to BBC World Service's Global Story.
- We do have a bit of a gender problem here because if this was a man in his 60s,
- 70s and even 80s and he's fathered a child, most people would pat him on the back.
- But they're probably patting me on the back because he's absolutely got a much younger partner.
- But if you've got a woman in her 60s, 70s or got a bit 80s having a child,
- then it does have a sort of shock reaction and makes people feel uncomfortable.
- Professor Harper thinks that society is more accepting of older fathers than older mothers.
- A 70-year-old man can still father a child.
- He can make a woman pregnant who then gives birth. and most people would pat him on the back an idiom meaning give someone praise or congratulations.
- On the other hand, says Professor Harper, God forbid a woman having a baby in her 80s.
- Here, the phrase God forbid is used as a way of saying you hope something will not happen.
- There's another side to this story, though.
- In the West, young women from Gen Z the generation born since the year 2000 are saying they won't have children at all.
- In more traditional countries, meanwhile, a woman's role is as a mother and many pray to God to be blessed with a child.
- Which is exactly what happened to Mangayama Yaramati, the South Indian woman I asked you about in my question, Neil.
- In 2019, she became the oldest recorded woman ever to give birth.
- Right, and I guessed she was 63 years old at the time. Which was the wrong answer, I'm afraid.
- In fact, she was even older 73.
- OK, let's recap the vocabulary we've learnt in this programme, starting with the phrase in your 40s,
- which describes the period of 10 years in someone's life when they're aged between 40 and 49.
- Phenomena describes any significant facts or events that we know exist and can be observed and discussed.
- If something lingers, it continues to exist longer than usual or expected.
- The verb to father means to make a woman pregnant, who then gives birth to a child.
- The idiom pat someone on the back is used to describe giving someone praise, congratulations or encouragement.
- And finally, the expression God forbid is a way of saying that you hope something will not happen.
- Once again, our six minutes are up, but don't forget to join us again soon for more trending topics and useful vocabulary here at 6 Minute English.
- Goodbye for now. Bye.